BEDROOM HEAT: MASSAGE YOUR WAY TO PARADISE

Sometimes, you don't need much more than your two hands to get your stressed partner into a very pliant mood. Nothing says romance like a deeeply relaxing sensual massage. Add some relaxing music, softly scented oil and aromatherapy candles and you'll turn your partner into putty in your hands, almost literally. And if you want to to take things to the next level, pour out some red wine and keep some bedroom food handy(strawberries, red grapes, soft white chocolate, whipped cream). Understand that the process must be erotic, but no sex must occur till its completion; the anticipation of sexual release heightens the pleasure of the experience.

 





 

Start out the massage by gently warming the massage oil (this could be Almond, jojoba, Moringa, Argan, Avocado, Coconut oil or any other oils that you feel comfortable with) between your palms, and ask your partner to lie face down on the bed. Most people have some major erogenous zones on their backs, especially around the shoulder blades, lower back, the back of the knees, and obviously- the gluteal muscles (i.e the butt).  Lay your finger tips on the body part and gently rotate your hands, applying some pressure in order to loosen up the muscles and remove any knots. Avoid pressing too hard so as not to cause pain to your partner.

 

 

After the Shiatsu, progress to long, gentle stroking movements (effleurage), keeping your fingers together, thumbs parallel and palms in full contact with the body part you are working on. Stroke from the lower back to the shoulders. Follow this up by compressing movements, where you gently apply pressure to the body part in order to warm up the muscle and keep the blood flowing.

 

By now, your partner should be emitting signs of intense pleasure; this is the time when you up the ante. Knead the more fleshy parts of the body such as the buttocks; create a roll of skin using your thumbs and gently push it up, like a baker kneads bread. Gently stroke the inner thighs and legs, avoiding the genitals (despite the temptation to do so). The feet  and hands provide a sensual map of the body; use some gentle shiatsu, working your thumbs from the heel to the toe and finger tips.

 

The next stage should be chest massage, start by carressing from the upper chest to the shoulder and stroking from the lower chest to the upper pelvic area. This chould have your partner bucking in anticipation- but the fun is yet to begin. For the guys, take your time and be gentle with your woman; focus on the underside of the breasts, kneading them gently until she begs you for release.

 

Before you progress to any sexual touching, make sure your partner begs, sensual massage is the ultimate form of power play and you should revel in it. enjoy!